Dealing with Critics

3–5 minutes

Systema has garnered both admiration and skepticism since its arrival on the global stage. While its proponents praise its fluidity, adaptability, and comprehensive focus on both physical and mental development, critics often dismiss it as ineffective or overly abstract. It’s interesting to note that many of the loudest critics have never trained in Systema themselves, offering critiques based on guesses and 20-second clips rather than experience. This dynamic creates a unique challenge for Systema practitioners: how to respond to critiques while maintaining their focus on the art and its profound potential for personal growth. Below, we explore four ways to deal with such criticism effectively, incorporating cutting-edge psychological tools.

1. Adopt the Mindset of “Cognitive Reframing”

Cognitive reframing is a psychological tool used to change the way we perceive and interpret events. Rather than viewing criticism of Systema as an attack, it can be reframed as an opportunity for growth and engagement. Critics, many of whom lack hands-on experience, are often speaking from a place of ignorance or misunderstanding. Instead of responding defensively, practitioners can use this criticism to sharpen their own understanding of Systema. By framing it as an opportunity to educate or clarify misunderstandings, individuals can maintain emotional balance and foster constructive conversations rather than falling into reactive behavior. This process helps in keeping one’s emotional energy directed toward improvement rather than conflict.

2. Use the “The Dunning-Kruger Effect” to Navigate Inexperienced Opinions

Psychologists have identified the Dunning-Kruger Effect, a cognitive bias where individuals with limited knowledge or experience in a field tend to overestimate their competence. When critics—especially those who have never trained in Systema—speak about the art with confidence, it’s essential to recognize that their opinions are often shaped by limited or superficial understanding. Rather than engaging in an emotional or defensive exchange, practitioners can acknowledge the critic’s opinion while gently pointing out that their lack of direct experience with Systema might limit their perspective. This can be done with kindness, offering an invitation to experience the art firsthand, where they can then form a more informed and nuanced understanding.

3. Maintain Emotional Resilience Through “Mindfulness Practices”

Mindfulness, a psychological practice aimed at staying present and non-judgmental in the moment, is a powerful tool for Systema practitioners. By cultivating mindfulness, individuals can develop the ability to observe criticism without being emotionally swept away by it. When facing criticism—especially from those who have never practiced Systema—mindfulness helps maintain composure. Rather than taking the criticism personally, practitioners can simply observe it as a passing thought and choose whether or not to engage with it. This approach fosters emotional resilience and ensures that reactions to criticism are measured, thoughtful, and constructive, rather than impulsive and defensive.

4. Leverage the Power of “Empathy” to Build Bridges

One of the most effective ways to deal with critics is by using empathy to understand where they’re coming from. Many critics of Systema may simply feel confused or threatened by its unconventional approach compared to more widely known martial arts. By recognizing their emotions, practitioners can approach the criticism with compassion. Instead of perceiving the criticism as an attack, it becomes a reflection of a misunderstanding or an opportunity to share knowledge. Practitioners can offer insights into their own experiences with Systema, showing how it has positively impacted their lives, and offer to demonstrate its techniques in a controlled and open-minded setting. This helps build rapport with critics and opens the door for mutual learning and respect.

Conclusion: Building a Stronger Practice Through Constructive Criticism

Criticism is inevitable in any field, and Systema is no exception. However, by understanding the psychology behind the critics’ behavior and applying modern psychological tools, practitioners can not only cope with criticism but also use it to enhance their practice. Cognitive reframing, recognizing cognitive biases like the Dunning-Kruger effect, mindfulness, and empathy are all strategies that can help practitioners navigate the often challenging terrain of external criticism. More importantly, these strategies allow Systema practitioners to stay focused on their art, ensuring their personal growth and the evolution of Systema as a powerful, transformative practice. Instead of allowing unqualified critiques to disrupt their path, Systema practitioners can rise above the noise, continuing to cultivate mastery, health, and mental clarity in the face of adversity. After all, we train in the great art on the planet!